Value of Experience

1 Year Transformation

Throughout high school and up until I was about 20, I didn't get laid very often. The rare times I did, it was practically handed to me on a silver social circle platter. From having very few women available to me, I became dependent on them. Since there wasn't a lot available to me, I would enter into one relationship after another with every girl who was half decent looking and willing to fuck me. It was brutal, but this is how A LOT of guys live their life – and they do it until one of these girls agrees to marry them..

When Things Started To Change

Back in 2009, I had a dry spell that lasted around a year. I ended up spending most of that time of the dry spell at the gym working out.

Putting on some muscle was and is a great idea to improve appearance -but it obviously didn't get me laid. Back then in my own mind, I assumed fucking new women meant a lot of time, energy, and money to invest first.

After being tired of not getting fucked much, I made the commit and my #1 priority to never again go so long without pussy. For me, this meant an easy way to get laid without putting in a lot of time, energy, and/or money.

BAM! Online Dating, I heard it was fairly easy to get laid so I thought I’d give it a shot..

It took me a few months to learn the basics (great pics, hit numbers hard) I was fairly clueless at first. It slowly went from a meet with a new girl once or twice a month, to twice a week, to at least 5 girls every week.

About 7 months in, I was fucking a lot. I didn't work (saved enough $ to get by) and lived at home. I was blitzing, dating, fucking and sleeping. My parents were disgusted at me for bringing home so many girls.

How Did I Manage to Fuck so Much? . . .

 

My Goal was Quantity over Quality

Now the girls weren't whales that beached themselves onto my bed. I’m reasonably good looking, I went down ‘1 point or 2’ on the looks scale and a whole world opened up. If you’re an 8/10 on looks go for girls that you think are 7s and 6s. If you’re a 7, go for 6s and 5s etc. Obviously good looks are a personal perspective but you get the idea..

The constant experience was invaluable

I improved my vibe, anxieties, experience in bed, confidence, neediness, game plan, (setting good logistics, where to meet, where to fuck, etc) and one of the most important things I learned was how to retain women.

Fortunately, I already had a basic idea of how to retain women from an older friend who has been doing it for years. Even though I followed some solid advice, I needed a lot of experience of trying to get good at it.

When I got good at it- it was a game changer

When I fuck a girl that’s my type and really hot (or in my case, I like smaller cuter ones) I like to keep fucking her. I wasn't always into one night stands – I’m lazy and would much rather have a 2 or 3 girl rotation - and that’s exactly what I did. After that, it was open relationships.

If I Had Only Went After The Hottest Girls...

If I had only gone after the very hottest girls, I would have delayed the progress I made. I actually might not have made any progress, as I could have just ended up clinging on to the one rare hot girl that comes into my life.
Now when the 8s, 9s, & 10s come into my life – I know what to do, how to fuck them, and how to retain them (if I want to)

It’s hard to gain a lot of solid experience if you don’t make consistent progress in a fairly short amount of time. Since I ended up meeting with 3-5  different woman a week, my mind was solely focused with everything related to the women side of my life. This way, I could build up the habits and experience fast of everything from when I first meet the girl until she’s fucked. It’s similar to the AA program – daily (or this case 2/3days) of exposure and progress. You’re not going to learn anything if you only go on a date or two a month.

 

I had put aside a year in my life to meet, fuck, and date (fuckbuddies/open relationships) as many girls as I could. I became a guy who gets fucked more than mostly anyone I know - while barley leaving the house (just to fuck or workout)

The Difference Of 1 Full Dedicated Year

End Of A Relationship

INEXPERIENCED ROOSTER
Often didn’t leave bad relationships, still felt neediness and emotional towards the girl.

EXPERIENCED ROOSTER
If the connection and the relationship feels like it’s dying out, I’ll end it. Most women I see as a fuckbuddy or open relationship rarely 100% ends. It’s just we stop seeing each other for the time being and we continue to be on good terms.

Consequences Of Leaving

INEXPERIENCED ROOSTER
Didn't know when I would get laid next. Being in a relationship for months I felt I lost all of my “game” and will have difficulty by spending a lot energy and time to get laid/girlfriend again.

EXPERIENCED ROOSTER
I’m usually fucking at least 2 different girls on rotation while having other contacts of old fuckbuddies I can call to come over whenever. If a good relationship were to end for whatever reason, having other girls to fuck at your disposal does help a lot.

Possibility Of Cheating

INEXPERIENCED ROOSTER
I took what I could get back then, regretfully. It was rare for a girl to make big advances on me, so I took advantage of it when I did.

EXPERIENCED ROOSTER
I don’t promise monogamy to anyone, so it’s impossible to cheat. The girls I date know I fuck other women on the side if I want to, as they can fuck other guys if they want to.
This is actually quite rare, in my experience most girls just want to be fucking one guy at a time – even though I’ll even encourage them to go have fun with others.

General Happiness

INEXPERIENCED ROOSTER
Often entered relationships fast with nearly any hot chick who agrees. I wouldn't really know what these girls are truly like and I was already dating them.

EXPERIENCED ROOSTER
Personally, my best relationships have been open ones. There has been no/very little drama and no rules (other than both of us always using protection with others.) If I were to just think about entering into any sort of relationship with a girl, it will be after at least 6 months of her as a fuckbuddy.
I’m not saying you have to have open relationships if they’re not for you, in my experience the things I learned from this transformation increased my general happiness a lot.

Social Pressure For Quality

INEXPERIENCED ROOSTER
I knew in my old social circle that if I were to be even seen with a girl that wasn’t an 8 or above, I wouldn’t hear the end of it. The funny thing is – since we all were like this, none of us got laid often. That made fucking/dating an 8 or above even more rare..

EXPERIENCED ROOSTER
After fucking a lot of women and gaining experience in all areas, I slowly started to not care. My own life’s happiness and how I like to do things outweighed the opinion of others.
Funny enough – once I gained that social freedom with experience, I started getting the 8s and above much easier and often.

Sexual Confidence

INEXPERIENCED ROOSTER
Even within the social circle I sometimes had troubles. I had a bit of ED, I knew if I were to fuck a girl in my social circle but have trouble getting it up – everyone will find out. With much lower social freedom I cared a lot about what people think of me back then. On top of that –after having long dry spells I became a little “rusty” in bed.

EXPERIENCED ROOSTER
After fucking a lot of women, I basically stopped caring much about what my friends’ think. My ED was sexual anxiety; the experience gave me the confidence to overcome it. Never going more than 10 days without sex for a couple years straight – also helps how well I fuck

Final Note:

Putting aside all other goals of mine for 1 year to focus on easily and efficiently getting laid drastically changed my life. I had made it my #1 priority over everything else. If I decided to do all of this while trying to get a promotion at work, cut 30lb, or anything else I likely wouldn’t have accomplished jack shit.

Choose your goals, and manage your time.
Love,
Rooster