Asking a friend out over text can be quite daunting, especially when you're uncertain about their reaction. On the one hand, you may be close friends and reluctant to jeopardize the friendship by making a move. On the other hand, spending a lot of time together can make it challenging not to develop feelings for them.
At some point, everyone's had a crush on somebody they didn't know very well (or at all). It can be frustrating when you want to be able to talk or text them, but you're afraid it may seem a bit weird or too "out of the blue" for them to be receptive. Realize that regardless of how well you know them, you should always ask a stranger out by being friendly but direct. You can start by saying something like, "hey I'm Ross, we met at Jessica's place the other night."
Navigating the dating scene can be difficult under the best circumstances, but the workplace can add an extra layer of complexity. With the amount of time we spend at work, it's no surprise that romantic feelings can develop between coworkers. If you find yourself crushing on a colleague and want to know how to casually ask them out, this guide is for you.